Young man went to a wise man in China to learn from him the secret of success, and asked what is the secret of success?? The wise man replied quietly: motives!! The young man asked him: and where these drivers come from? The wise man replied: flaming desires!!! Young man asked with amazement how?! The wise man left the young man and returned him minutes after carrying pot with water, the wise man asked the young man: Are you sure you want to know the source of the burning desires?The young man replied: Of course, the wise man asked the young man to closer to the water and seen it, did the young man and the wise man suddenly pressed both hands on top of the young man and put it into the water!!! Young did not move seconds, and then began to head out slowly and when suffocation hair began strongly resists even managed to extricate himself .... and the young man asked: What is this done?? The wise man answered: What did you learn from the experience?? Replied the young man: I did not learn something!! Said the wise man: but I've learnt in the first few minutes you want to rid yourself of water, but your motives were not enough, then you're willing to rid yourself and began to move and resistance, but slowly, where motives were not reached to the highest degrees .. and finally became you have a burning desire to rid yourself, and only then you succeeded because there were not any force can stop the burning desire!!! We understand from this is that desire is the first rule of success and the secret to success is a burning desire.
Types of motives:
The primary motivator (defended stay): It is forcing man to satisfy his basic needs such as food, air and water if there is what threatens you stay vigilant and will become Enthusiasm will be stronger to save your life.
The second motivation is external drivers: comes from the outside world as a distinguished lecturer or a friend or a family member or magazines or books or any other person .... the problem of these motivations they fade quickly. May be affected too listen to a lecture and activated and are you moving high but after a week you will be you moving as they are??? Mark Twain said, "You can wait, wishing for something to happen that makes you feel good about yourself and your business, but you can guarantee happiness if you give to yourself".
The third motivation is internal drives: It is one of the strongest and most motivated to stay where you are directed by your strength inner self that lead you to achieve great results. Internal drives are the reason that the average person do things higher than the normal level and up to great results .. are the forces behind the success of the human .. is the difference that demonstrates the variation in people's lives .. is the force that she pushes you to be grown yourself instead of flowers have to wait for someone you provide them internal drives are the light that radiates from ourselves is the sleeping giant within us waiting to wake up.
A model of motivation in five steps:
1 - Breathing: Take inspiration until the count to four, and then exhale even count to four, breathable always this way during the experiment.
2 - Develop a body: Sit or Stand Single shoulders and your head held high.
3 - Verification: echoed in circa 5 times a positive message that says: I am strong .. gave this assurance in the power of thunder sound issued from your body, repeating the message repeated 5 times aloud, "I am strong."
4 - Connecting sensations: Be confident and Link feel all your senses and be confident and strong and you say I am strong and not taking her weak or strong possibility perhaps I even say it I am strong firmly strapped feelings.
5 - link: Maybe pay tribute to a stock or hair or vote ... all or some of reminds you of a person or event .. this is what we call a link - Let's try together: Think of the experience led to a very high degree of enthusiasm in the past, breathable strongly and singled out the shoulders and lift your head and when your feelings are strong touch the link on this experience and repeated 5 times "I am strong, I am strong" Now lift your hand for connectivity and then touch the link again .. what you feel now?? And what you hear inside you?? If you have taken this training the right way it is supposed to be high degree of enthusiasm.
Powerful motivation strategy:
1 - Buy a notebook that and call it "my friend to Success" and without a day at least three things you successful in that day.
2 - Make a list of things you want to purchase, and every time accomplished pursuant to a successful bought yourself something from this list. Example: successful work is to adjust the negative feelings .. and reward is to buy a book or watching a funny movie.
3 - Make your own something like once a week to hear the sounds of nature or sea birds ... or perform calisthenics ... or take a stroll in a quiet place.
4 - trained on the link three times a day and make sure that you do so with a sense and a sense of honest until the process becomes automatic....