Some interpret the concept of marital happiness that the couple live life without problems .... Of all kinds , whether emotional problems - physical - Sexual ...
And narrows the concept of marital happiness when others while based in the body, where it is defined as the completion of the sex between the couple the best way possible , without weakness or lack of sexual desire in the meeting .
But we see that marital happiness broader and more comprehensive concept means a quiet life , where the couple faces trouble extent that they are facing happiness without disorder or fear or concern ... I imagine married life like a ship in the Sea of volatile world ... If the ship's captain wise and experts , be able to cope with storms and disorders of the sea , and saves the balance not break down the ship, as well as the couple must be characterized by their lives calm and patient when faced with any kind of trouble in life and work as much as possible to keep with peave their lives happy. Often we find a couple living in love ... Live for a certain period in the life full of love and crowned with peace and quiet ... Everything they were hoping for has got it .... It marital home combines them ... But as soon as a physical problem , for example , worries the couple , fearing for the future ... And lost the smile and dictate their faces signs of confusion and fear of disability and how their lives will afford some sort ... And ending happiness slowly ... Here eliminated the false mask of happiness for the couple ... Can we really say that it were Aashaan on a truly happy life . Both . The truth is the joy of keeping a smile on the lips ... And quietly heart ... And peace of mind ... And lack of disturbance during the occurrence of any problem whatsoever ... Some may wonder ... How do we feel distress or worry or feel overwhelmed when faced with a problem ? ? ? ?
How to be happy and we have a problem make us unhappy ! Physical problem ... Sexual problem ... Such as the inability to have children , for example , a couple ... And so on?
More importantly , my dear husband, dear wife, is not the problem , but in us , and in the way we treat , the surrender of the problem, and drown in grief and anxiety .. Rather than think of finding a solution to the problem we think in the same problem and we are puzzled , anxiety and sadness.
So it must be ready to face any issue may grieve our lives or change the taste must be thinking to think with the mind to find solutions to the problem . And not just only one solution , may fail , but to be the existence of several alternative solutions to the problem. So that we can face all the roads, and keep quiet on this issue .
For example, the couple may face delayed childbearing for example after a period of their marriage , instead of anxiety and sadness , puts the couple several solutions to this problem are as follows :
Action Medical examination of the couple -
If the result of the analysis of a problem for one of the spouses , to be potentially the other party and have- full confidence and faith in God , and begins party patient treatment.
If treatment is not given any positive result with another doctor tries -
tomorrow did not show any signs of in reproduction the in the process of artificial insemination have shown the tests conducted in this area continued success .... So why not ?
If the couple can not be done for one reason or another , why not do should do under the auspices of a toddler shelters , father and motherhood in Education and the real origin , not only in reproduction .
Thus, the same thing is true with any problem facing each couple to put the solution and workaround dry instead of thinking that does not lead to a positive result .